Children Dressing Older Younger; The Girls And Boys Clothing Debate

Is it old fashioned to hark back to an idyllic era wheresimple, quality children’s clothing so readily
girls dressed as girls, boys as boys and childhoodavailable.  Little wonder that those with a conscience
existed beyond the age of 5?  This may not be awho believe that this really does matter turn away
new topic but it is one which is guaranteed to stir upfrom the high street and seek an alternative online. 
strong opinions in most people, particularly parentsLuckily as consumers we do have that option and
and grandparents. can vote with our feet by putting our money where
Take a walk down any UK high street these daysour beliefs are.
and much of the kids clothing you see is a mini-meThe clothes we wear represent much more than
version of adults clothing.  Skimpy tops adorned withsurface appearance.  They reflect our individuality,
glitter for girls and low slung jeans studded with logoswhat we believe in and stand for, and in the case of
and chains for boys are typical of the kids fashionchildren, what we as responsible adults caring for and
style you will see.  ‘What is wrong with kidsguiding our children believe in.  It is possible to
following fashion?’ may be your initial responseencourage independence and free thinking among our
to this, but perhaps you should stop to considerchildren without encouraging them to dress
whether in a society where children are sexualised atprovocatively or inappropriately for their age.  It is
an increasingly young age it is a good idea to bepossible to dress them and, as they grow up, allow
mass marketing this kind of clothing in the firstthem to choose their own clothes that reflect a
place?  By doing so aren’t we responsible forcontemporary, forward thinking approach without
perpetuating the moral values we claim to sobeing tacky, degrading or slaves to advertising
deplore?  Maybe the issue at stake here is whetherslogans. 
it is the kids following fashion themselves, or theWith so much of our life spent as adults
parents who are encouraging their kids to follow inshouldn’t we be looking for ways such as this to
their own fashion footsteps? allow our kids to simply be kids and enjoy life?  If
What can be established is that purchasing this typethis is deemed old fashioned, then what is wrong
of heavily branded, adult orientated, oftenwith upholding certain principles and values that should
provocative merchandise only serves to endorse itsbe allowed to stand the test of time and not wither
very existence in the first place.  We do after all livein the face of the modern world?  With the right
in a supply and demand society.  One view is thatapproach and selective consumerism this can be done
UK consumers are left with little alternative due to awithout having to cocoon our children in an outdated
lack of choice in the market place – it’s truesociety or at the detriment of their own individual
that unlike France, Spain or other European countriesdevelopment.
Britain does just not seem to have the choice of